Do you have people
in your life who always throw you off? Regardless of how happy you
are, or regardless of how content you feel, the moment you hang out
with these people, your mood just drops like a rock. Welcome to the
If you have any
friends or family, and this means that you’re part of 99.9% of the
human population, there will always be a toxic person. There’s at
Regardless of how
well everything is going in their lives, they always manage to snatch
defeat from the jaws of victory. That’s just the way they are.
It’s seems that
everything they touch somehow turns sour. No matter how bright, no
matter how hopeful, no matter how optimistic, they always make things
negative. It’s always the worst case scenario.
The problem with
toxic people is not a problem at all. They are who they are. They
made their beds, and you should allow them to sleep in them. We are
all entitled to live the lives that we have chosen.
But the problem is,
when you define them as toxic people, you trigger a chain reaction in
your mind that ensures that their toxicity seeps into your mind.
Negative as they are, and no matter how much distance you would like,
some of it seeps in.
Why? Well, because
of your choices. Negative people are only negative because you made
I know that sounds
crazy because you probably have a friend or an acquaintance or a
relative that you know full well is a social cancer. This person is
just the worst of the worst. But believe me, your power of definition
is more powerful than you give it credit.
And a lot of the
times, you are reading this negativity into that person. And worst
yet, you are allowing it to poison you as well. Believe me, there is
no person in the world that is 100% negative. It all boils down to
I don’t want to get
all postmodern on you and I definitely don’t want this to be
misconstrued or misunderstood as some sort of postmodern amoral
philosophical discussion. It isn’t. What I’m just saying is that
there are always two sides to a story.
And it may well turn
out that the reason why these “toxic” people around you are
slowly killing you is because you allow them to. You define things in
such a way that they are toxic.
This is where it
gets uncomfortable. Because if you were to change your decisions, if
you were to change your attitude and perspective, things will
But let’s get real
here. This takes work. It also takes maturity, and one person has to
be the adult. Who wants to be that, right?
Make Better Choices
By Choosing to Be Clear
Part of what makes
“detoxifying” our relationships such a burden and such a
hassle is because of the fact that we feel we can’t do it. We feel
that it’s too much work. We feel that there is just too much at risk.
In other words, we’re making a thousand and one excuses why we don’t
want to do it.
Well, if you’re sick and tired of making excuses, click here. This simple practice, which takes less than 15 minutes every single day, can enable you to get the mental and willpower resources you need to detoxify anybody you come across.
social cancer that you feel negatively impacts you is a choice. It is
a definition. And for it to have any power, you have to buy into the
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